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  • Feelings

    To those who came out already, I want to know what were you feeling a few minutes or hours before you came out to your parents?

  • #2
    I bet they had butterflies in their stomachs just like anyone of us who's going to say something important to them and you don't know how they would react.


    • Ponde4rHot
      Ponde4rHot commented
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      Did your parents accept you immediately when you came out?

    • KatrLove
      KatrLove commented
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      I think that's basic whenever you're trying to tell something that you're afraid that the other person might not take it well.

    • ItsTrickie
      ItsTrickie commented
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      Ponde4rHot They didn't accept it at first but learned to accept me after days have passed.

  • #3
    I felt very much comfortable to talk to them. They accepted what I am now and I was so glad that I was treated as a normal person to them.


    • dickhertz
      dickhertz commented
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      That's a good thing because not all parents are accepting their children.

    • Loverser
      Loverser commented
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      But I think deep in their hearts they are not proud of what you've become and they are hiding their dislike towards you.

  • #4
    I felt bad at first because they did not accept me but after a few months, they contacted me and said sorry because they were shocked by what I said.


    • HaremHarmony
      HaremHarmony commented
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      It's normal at the start to be rejected for what I saw. I bet they realize that they made a mistake for not accepting you at that time.

    • BleakHeatingBoundary
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      Were you relieved when they called you and told you that they were sorry about the way they acted?

  • #5
    It was actually disappointing for me. When I came out on my family, they did not believe me and just said that I am fooling them.


    • dec
      dec commented
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      I'm guessing that they still didn't believed you that you're telling the truth that's why you were disappointed?

    • garyrary
      garyrary commented
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      They're probably sure that you are not capable of being one so that's why they think that you're fooling them.

    • BreezeLoveTroik
      BreezeLoveTroik commented
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      It's a stereotypical reaction when one has come out and I don't blame them if they think they are being fooled by you.

  • #6
    Quite anxious about what to say and do about it, slightly nervous because it's the moment where you will hear something awful and hurtful if they won't accept you.


    • Siumedia
      Siumedia commented
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      All you can do is accept what they say to you and make sure you're not too sensitive to handle it or else you will be crying all day.

    • StrangeNewsAncient
      StrangeNewsAncient commented
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      So did the accept you freely or it took sometime before they accepted you.

  • #7
    Why are you curious to find out what they were feeling before coming out? Are you thinking of coming out as well?


    • JackWabbit
      JackWabbit commented
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      He might be coming out as well and wants to know how people deal with those things.

    • VinnyBeany
      VinnyBeany commented
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      I think he wants to know what it feels like if ever he will come out and tell his parents about it.

  • #8
    I think it's the same feeling if you're planning to tell your parents a secret that you've been hiding for a long time.


    • pussySwankylicking
      pussySwankylicking commented
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      Did you feel not worried about it especially their reaction?

    • FollowShrillPresent
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      How many times have you talked to your parents about secrets that you've kept from them for a long time?

  • #9
    Once I came out and told my parents that I was transgender and I was in the process of transitioning, they supported me and it was like a tremendous weight had been lifted off my shoulders. The word that best describes my reaction was RELIEF!


    • assWrytight
      assWrytight commented
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      I do agree that the best feeling after coming out as trans is a sign of relief especially if they accepted us already.

    • Injustice
      Injustice commented
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      Guess you're one of the lucky ones whose parents accepted you openly. Not like the others who were disowned or it took sometime before accepting them.

    • SmilesAway
      SmilesAway commented
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      Sometimes it's unbelievable if they came out successfully with their parents without suffering to much trouble.