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  • Didn't Know I Was Looking For Love

    Has any of you accidentally fallen in love with a fuck buddy? Only asking this since I remembered an ex of mine who started as my fuck buddy

  • #2
    The last guy that I was with started as my fuck buddy


    • Ponde4rHot
      Ponde4rHot commented
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      But do most of the guys you've fallen in love with started as fuck buddies?

    • VinnyBeany
      VinnyBeany commented
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      It's inevitable to fall for a fuckbuddy but sometimes some fuckbuddies fall for you too.

  • #3
    It was actually the other way around for me. My fuck buddy fell in love with me, but I told him that I wasn't interested in being in a relationship during that time


    • dec
      dec commented
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      Same, the last time I had a fuck buddy, I didn't know that he was into me.

    • Labea
      Labea commented
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      What was his reaction when you told him that? Did the two of you continued hooking up or was that the last time you've heard from him?

  • #4
    Nope. There's a fine line between having a serious partner and having a fuck buddy. It should stay that way.


    • BleakHeatingBoundary
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      And what do you often do in order for it to say that way?

  • #5
    Nope. Never happened with me. I guess that there are no true love after all.


    • DonHungwell
      DonHungwell commented
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      Even just an ounce of love? I nearly fell in love with a hookup but at least it has come to my senses that she couldn't reciprocate the same for me.

    • ItsTrickie
      ItsTrickie commented
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      Are you still longing to have that one true love?

  • #6
    I always do like every hookup that I had, I think that I would fall in love with them. Seems like love is all in the air.


    • LegsGo
      LegsGo commented
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      No, you shouldn't fall for hookups. You're aware that they're just there for sex and not for a lifetime commitment with you. Save yourself from heartache, sweetheart.

  • #7
    It happens sometimes and for others. For me, it did not happen yet. Fuck buddies are just fuck buddies.


    • assObeisanttight
      assObeisanttight commented
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      Are you hoping that one of the future ones would end up as a boyfriend or you want them to remain as just your fuck buddy?

    • Lisbeth
      Lisbeth commented
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      Absolutely, I told my fuckbuddies that if neither of us falls for each other, it should stop there because we'd never agree that something else will follow.

  • #8
    There have been a few who ended up as my girlfriend. Was lucky enough that we feel the same way towards each other when I told them that I want to take things on a serious note


    • FrogAddiction
      FrogAddiction commented
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      Would I also end up as your girlfriend, too? lol.

    • JackWabbit
      JackWabbit commented
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      Good for you. I guess I need to try one real soon.

  • #9
    IT happens sometimes but I would hold back the rest of my feelings towards him, when he shows signs of red flags that's when I start to distance myself.


    • BreezeLoveTroik
      BreezeLoveTroik commented
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      You sometimes can't avoid catching feelings from your fuckbuddies, but you're aware of the possible consequences that might arise.

  • #10
    I fell in love to him but not with him. Sad? Yeah, shit happens. But it happens to some of us. I know, I have been there. What can we do?


    • #11
      You know what? Do not fall in love with your fuck buddy.
      Why? Because they would never love you back!
      Trust me. Been there, done that. I already know it all.
      Spare yourselves from heartaches by not falling in love with them.


      • Financial
        Financial commented
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        You seem to be so bitter in that aspect but you know what? I agree with you! lol. I had fallen in love with some of my fuck buddies in the past. And you know what happened? They rejected me! Ah!

    • #12
      It has happened to me once and I feel that she's even the one who got away which made me feel bad about the break up


      • FollowShrillPresent
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        I'm guessing that was one of the greatest mistakes that you've ever had in your life?

    • #13
      Never had a fuck buddy who had the traits that I'm looking for in a boyfriend. So all my fuck buddies remained as is