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  • Performance Anxiety?

    Has any of you been with a partner who had performance anxiety when it comes to sex? Like the guy having problems making it hard and the like.

  • #2
    The only times I've been with one who had some performance issues were the ones who wanted to have sex with me while they're drunk.


    • garyrary
      garyrary commented
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      That's why it's never a good idea to have sex when both parties are drunk or one has too much to drink.

    • kendikendall
      kendikendall commented
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      Is it hard to make it hard? Lol. I don't really like making out with drunk people because some can't make it.

  • #3
    Yes, I've been in that situation where the guy had problems in making it hard.


    • LikeCream
      LikeCream commented
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      You should at least help him by stroking it and if it doesn't help, maybe the guy's impotent.

    • TeethPlane
      TeethPlane commented
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      Was he able to have an erection or the two of you were not able to have sex that evening?

  • #4
    I think that most of us have been with a person who had that problem at least once. Especially the ones who lost their virginity with their partners at the same time.


    • StrangeNewsAncient
      StrangeNewsAncient commented
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      How about you? Did you experience that as well when you lost yours?

  • #5
    I'm not sure that sort of thing happens to us ladies. Only saying this based on my own experience and what my female friends has told me.


    • Injustice
      Injustice commented
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      It also happens but it's not that often. Based on what I've read, ladies who are having performance anxieties would have a hard time making their pussy wet enough for coitus.

  • #6
    I had a few before. It is because the woman that I was with was really hot and I can't believe that I was about to have sex with her.


    • Bearitzens
      Bearitzens commented
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      So were you able to have sex with her or you ended up disappointing her?

    • JackWabbit
      JackWabbit commented
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      I also felt a tremendous amount of heartbeats because I was so nervous.

    • BuffyThinFun
      BuffyThinFun commented
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      Bearitzens Yeah, I did. I don't want to waste the moment now that she's here.

  • #7
    Originally posted by StickStitch View Post
    Has any of you been with a partner who had performance anxiety when it comes to sex? Like the guy having problems making it hard and the like.
    Maybe he's not horny enough or is not in a mood for sex. I could try hard on pills or viagra might help him out.


    • ItsTrickie
      ItsTrickie commented
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      If proper handjob really can't make it hard maybe he got erectile dysfunction.

    • HaremHarmony
      HaremHarmony commented
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      Taking the magic blue pill is kinda risky, he might end up having an erection way longer that expected which is dangerous.

  • #8
    It happened with a guy before and he was afraid to push it right up to the very end because he was afraid that he would hurt me if he keeps on pushing it deep inside.


    • pussySwankylicking
      pussySwankylicking commented
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      Maybe his dick is big enough and yours is very tight that's why he keeps controlling it so it won't hurt.

    • assWrytight
      assWrytight commented
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      Maybe he is afraid that you did not ask for it or like what pussySwankylicking said, maybe your ass is too tight.

  • #9
    That happened with a couple of times already. It usually happens when I get to sleep with a girl who's really hot.


    • FollowShrillPresent
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      Hope that they were not mad at you when you had problems getting it hard for them.

    • pussyDefectivetight
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      And how many times did that actually happened? I bet that always happens to you whenever you would sleep with a girl for the first time.

    • SmilesAway
      SmilesAway commented
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      For me, it's the other way around if she's not hot then I'll be having trouble making it hard.

  • #10
    It was one time I did a cowgirl position and I was distracted by his face and can't believe I'm doing it and was shy to do it fast.


    • VinnyBeany
      VinnyBeany commented
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      Was he funny or are you attracted to his face that made you distracted on him?