security

Is this site secure? I'm not out to all my friends or family or coworkers and I really wouldn't want my personal info getting leaked or anything

Yes, I've been in that kind of situation before and that's what I exactly did

Not really, I'm just discreet is all.

Does that mean that you're timid or quiet whenever you're with your friends?

Have you done that before or that is what you're going to do once they found out about it?

So you're just going to turn the tables on them so that they would be the ones who have to answer the issue?

You shouldn't be worried about that one. Think of it this way, if they ever find out that you're a member here, you can just ask them why he or she ended up on the site like this

I'm not worried about friends and family joining this site and knowing I'm gay, I'm okay with that, the thing I'm most worried about is when people I know see and read my messages and comments on here, and think to themselves how naughty and horny I am all the time, LOL

The site is secure so you have nothing to worry about. but if you still arent sure try using a picture where they wouldn't easily recognise you.

So far I haven't had any problems with the site so i say it's pretty secure. I'd like to be a bit discrete and I surely wouldn't want anyone i know to see me.

It would be a hella unique conversation starter if someone you knew found you here

I say the site is pretty secure and I haven't had any problems with the site. you can adjust you settings if you want

How can you adjust the privacy settings though?

I'd say this site is pretty secure, If you're really that worried about someone recognising you try using different photo

Best advice is don't put too much information in your profile.